28.10.06

All Muslims Declared Insane:

http://www.islamonline.net/iol-english/dowalia/society-7-2-2000/society1.asp

Ibn Umar (raa) reported that Allah's Messenger (pbuh) as saying: "Every intoxicant is Khamr and every (type of) Khamr is prohibited. The one who drinks wine in this world and is addicted to it dies without repentance and will not drink it in the Hereafter."3

http://www.islamweb.net/ver2/archive/article.php?lang=E&id=844&ShowVoteResult=yes

A recent study revealed that alcohol use costs the U.S. a staggering billion US dollars a year, more than all illegal drugs combined, in the form of lost workdays and drunken driving accidents. Alcohol is a most addictive psychoactive drug; about six million Americans persistently misuse it and another 8 million are permanently addicted to it. This year about 100,000 will die from alcohol-related causes and hospital beds are littered with chronic alcohol abusers suffering from heart disease, stroke and liver failure. Others spend years in and out of treatment centers with their lives wrecked as well as of those close to them. Most of such outpatients suffer from illnesses such as anxiety, depression and schizophrenia. Yet alcohol is a socially accepted common drink and flows freely throughout the American society. Alcohol manufacturers spend more than 1 billion in advertisements promoting its relaxing and pleasing effects. That is three times the annual budget of the National Institute of Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA) for alcohol research. Unlike other drugs, no war has been declared on its misuse and any talk of restriction conjures up the failures of 1920's prohibition era. There is no discussion of its ill effects except in relation to road accidents, despite the knowledge that it is responsible not only for death of others on the road but is also harmful to the one who uses it.

In Pre Islamic Arabia:

Drinking would provide escape from deep-rooted personal insecurities and the instability of family life, just as it does today. (Hahaha much like Pre Islamic America ya think?)

A well organized plan for gradual change. The Islamic prohibition on alcohol was a logical final step of a well organized plan executed over a period of 3 years, communicated by the Qur’an and put into practice by the Prophet. Thus the heavy and problem drinkers were gradually weaned off this habit. We could assume this to have some resemblance to the present-day systematic desensitizing hierarchy used in behavioral therapy.However, the most important factor was the believers’ whole-hearted readiness to give up drinking when the Divine command came: "Surely al-khamr (intoxicants; wine and alcoholic drinks) is forbidden." This command was enough to stop drinking instantaneously, throw away any and all drinks and to break up or empty existing pots, skins full and other containers of fermented date, palm, honey and grape in every gathering and household until the streets of Madinah flowed like streams of alcohol as a testimony to the greatest anti-alcohol movement ever witnessed by humankind. It was an extraordinary exhibition of willpower installed by faith.

Thus it is clear that the current epidemic of alcohol abuse cannot be remedied unless the supporting structures and mechanisms are put in place in the American society. Therefore, it is time that American Muslims with their rich tradition and reGreater Syria methodology, get busy working to help their compatriots beset with problems such as those associated with the use of alcohol.

12 comments:

Carmenisacat said...

I'm afraid this person may go off the deep end soon. I don't want to be part of the force to be blamed for 'pushing' her. When you've alienated just about everyone you come in contact with, it gets pretty damn lonely, especially if you feel uprooted and under attack, as is the case here.

Until recently, I thought this was just an ongoing diatribe aimed at you and I for our perceived mistreatment of her. I now believe it is something far deeper and more serious, and warrants care on our parts not to exacerbate her illness by being sucked into the vortices of hate and rage that surround her.


Well, this reminds me of something that happened with another friend of mine who, even though she falsely accused her husband of molesting their own daughter, thought it would be better to label me than to assume accountability for her own actions.

She is still with the abuser of her mind. But I'm not!

I think there are two men who need to understand what abusive personality types they actually are!

Did they indeed know that abusers always ISOLATE their victims of abuse and set up boundaries so that their abuses cannot be detected by "outsiders"?

I suppose neither one of them believes themself to be "abusive" but you see....many people on the internet know differently!

Many. And several of them over the years would write and ask me:

Why do you put up with their bullshit?

I didn't understand that issue then..but I sure do now and my regards go out to those who don't know it but should they ever DARE to question the behavior of either of these internet nuts (one of them who has personally decided he is the King of all Criticism and Poetry)...they will be tarred and feathered as well.

hahaha Tarred. I'd say I'd coined a new 'ism. The Fred Tarring of poets who dare to speak up to idgits of the very tyrannical kind.

Oh dear. And now...Tim is not only a consultant of leadership, he is now a "Board" certified psychoanalyst!

You know, I've seen more concern for another person's "well being" from a grape.

Carmenisacat said...

I wonder, what is Tim Smith's "theory" of managing conflict in the companies that pay him for this service?

Well. I think it is pretty clear that some people practice what they preach and others:

just preach.

Carmenisacat said...

I remember poor old Sminkie.

One of the many members of the Joe Green/Tim Smith abuse club.

And so many, many others who didn't opt to play a role in their constant victimations and incriminations.

All the while, good ole Timothy standing calmly by and ENABLING the abuser to do whatever he liked, whenever he liked.

Sometimes, when I was a participant at their place, I felt like I was witnessing violent crimes.

So glad to be out of that sphere and in other spheres where people are just plain old nice.

Carmenisacat said...

And the two of them ought to note that one of the cardinal symptoms of abusive relationships is the notion of the victim PROTECTING the abuser. Just like the ISOLATION of the victim is perpetrated by the abuser, the abuser plays a role in the victimization.

One of the other things that some abusers do is threaten the "loved things" of the victim...often times it is a pet or a child.

In my case, it was Fred Tarr.

And the two of them either blind to their own indecencies or worse yet, intentionally and morally CRUEL.

I'd always just hoped it was the former but the more I see out of these two the more I believe it to be the latter.

Sadists.

In fact, early on in this case study of a poetry war which is being archived for future use by me (not sure exactly how but sure it will be once I have time to digest what it is I've discovered aobut the "psychology" of sick mentorships in poetry, is the fact that the abuser brought one of my poems to people's attention very early on in order to shed some light on me.

Well, in retrospect, he shined light on his own misdeeds.

He highlighted a poem in which I banish a neighborhood kid to HELL for cutting a kitten open and nailing it to a board.

Wow.

There you go! There it is.

Carmenisacat said...

Oh...and they abused other "siblings" as well.

Dale. Who just wrote to me a nice letter and then, followed up with another one that was less "swishy".

Well Dale. Yes, I still write. Quite alot and sometimes I even win things and get published (an LA print publication has chosen a great one called Xrays, no doubt because poems about Beirut and Lebanon are in high demand now although I do not plan on capitalizing on that sort of thing unless my husband keeps bugging me to publish as he does lately).

But more importantly, Dale. As a sibling of that "order", you are best advised to take care. You've already cooperated for so long that you are most likely blind to the dangers of rudely interupting their "gaity" with something like TRUTH.

I can understand your need to "cooperate" but I think it would be best if you didn't write to me again. It looks a bit shabby to compare a letter to one of your dim attempts to cooperate without really "cooperating".

Just suffice it to say, I've seen it before and it will be seen again from those two.

Joe is in a Battle with something but no one really knows what!

And Tim? Who really cares. He is just too smart for his time. Born to soon and all of that. No doubt, one day they will discuss his theories on campuses throughout the Uncivilized World the rest of us schmucks have to live in.

Carmenisacat said...

And since Tim has decided he is now an authority on "mental illness" lets just look at one more aspect of Abusive relationships shall we? Since, I do have a license to practice in the scope of "Family" "Human Development" "Crisis", etc. I don't just "play one on TV darling"...I was one. Why, I've even carried dead human beings to the morgue!

First: Abusers Isolate
Second: Victims protect their abusers.
Third: The Victim wakes up and complains.

Fourth and most importantly, the ABUSER tries to make the victim feel guilty for their complaints.

Ah. This happened IMMEDIATELY following my report of abuse by the number one enabler and self proclaimed prophet of politics and mental health, Timothy Smith aka Samson Shillitoe (which is, btw, an obscure reference to a movie about a sad sack poet he hopes to represent in some way to the "good readers" who frequent the JD)...it happened immediately.

Poor little Joe Green said he was going to dismantle Owl Oak.

Oh...I fell for the trap. Sure did. I am really too empathetic for my own good sometimes. I just couldn't BEAR for poor old Papa Bear to throw it all away!

So I wrote a nice letter to everyone at the JD and said that the JD would always have my loyalty regardless of my own personal feelings of having been harrassed by the Guru of the Divine.

So..there you go! The Abuser tries to make victims feel guilty.

Well sorry guys. I ain't the guilty sort anymore. I learned to put credit where credit was due and even then, OVERDUE.

It's about time someone who could, did. Stand up to your abuses and do it without batting a single eyelash about the constant threats of "exposing me" to everyone in the world which is only...another sign of the abuse you practice, design and perform with such gaity and wit!

Guess the humor isn't what it used to be eh?

I'm still laughing though. At the intitial premise involving the ignorance of the first abuser and enabler. Not innocence or ignorance at all.

Just plain and simple, passive aggressive cruelty.

Carmenisacat said...

Go to hell. And drink the sweat of other abusers of male authority.

I'll be upstairs with a goblet of juice from the well of sealed camphor.

In'sha'allah.

Carmenisacat said...

And, btw Tim:

vortices.

I don't hate you. I pity you.

Serial relationships all gone awry.

Is it any wonder?

Carmenisacat said...

You are a tsunami alright. Recurrent sad tsnami and then...you have to hide it all eh?

The long line of poetic deaths and transfers of those you've harmed.

Well newsflash: I never expected more from you. I only went for the ride while it lasted...enjoyed it a bunch but as always, I'm a hitchhiker not a driver. I get better gas mileage that way.

You are blind. The Quran talks about the blind but you know, I though you still had a little light seeping under your cataracts.

As for the "other" he is simply blind. Congenitally blind and stuck in never having really looked at his behavior in life honestly. And at this rate, he never will.

No doubt about it. And when someone comes along who is able to metamorph into something completely honest...well. He just shivers in his own cold and meanings.

Develops contempt for all the others who can and do. Truly believes no one can see him in his dark room that the Creator stopped shining in...well...the only reason the Creator stopped shining in there is because he closed the windows long ago.

Stay in your dark mines. Maybe one day, you'll find your answers, or, maybe not!

And I do not nor never did, hope to trip either of you up along the way.

Carmenisacat said...

And shall we review the Smink files one more time?

Ah yes...a woman who committed to something (after pressure and praise from us) but could not deliver the finances. Oh..were there others who could not "deliver" the finances JJ?

Oh..there were several.

Nevermind that your harrassment caused the woman to go into a hypertensive crisis and then...her husband literally had to visit you to tell you to BACK OFF.

Lets not be so honest about others before we get honest about the "others" who couldn't afford the text. And those that didn't put their money into their envelops as post haste as they should have.

Two actually. Plus Fred.

It was a decision. And a committment to others and then...you just blew your stack eh?

Sadistically so.

If you were a muslim, you'd have recognized the absolute necessity of not brow beating those to whom you do charity "to".

With patrons like that, who needs enemies?

There is no lovingkind intervention anymore.

Just an exposure of your misdeeds and the FACT that you and your buddy never assume accountability and call that:

Sad but merry.

It is truly, only sad. Not even slightly merry. I'd say it is downright UGLY.

Carmenisacat said...

Hahaha and Israel committed a war crime to prove it.

And you missed the point you were given.

You had your sign. And, people of your "caliber" tend to miss their signs. Too busy with another master it seems. The feathering of your own nest.

Who is it that is all alone now?

It ain't me. I assure you.

Carmenisacat said...

Hahaha which reminds me of what Tim said:

I shit in my own nest.

Ah no. But as usual, you betray yourself in your own words:

Your nest and indeed Tim, you shat in it one too many times it seems.

I'm very tidy when it comes to organizing my nests. And then, I fly away!